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Halloween with an autistic child: a simple visual plan

Halloween is noisy, dark and unpredictable: costumes, doorbells, strangers and sometimes fireworks. Planning it like any other routine can make it much easier.

Plan the evening as steps

Show the evening in order, with pictures: costume on, take the bucket, walk to the first house, knock, say “trick or treat”, take one sweet, say thank you, and home. Go through it a few days before, then again on the night.

Agree the route and the number of houses in advance, and make home a clear last step. Knowing when it ends is half the battle.

Practise the costume

Try the costume on at home a few times before the night. Soft, familiar clothes with one fun piece often work better than a full outfit. If a mask or face paint is too much, skip it; a hat or a cape still counts.

If trick-or-treating isn’t right this year

Staying in can be just as good: answering the door with a bowl of sweets, a Halloween film, or a few houses of family and friends who know you’re coming. If the doorbell is hard, leave a bowl outside with a sign, or turn off the porch light.

Fireworks

Late October and early November bring fireworks. Ear defenders, watching from a window, and a short visual story about what fireworks look and sound like can all help. Tell your child before they start, not after the first bang.

Kits that go with this guide

• Halloween kit (£3.49): A Halloween schedule with trick-or-treat and fireworks visual stories.
• Christmas kit (£3.99): A Christmas Day board, a visiting-Santa story and a countdown to colour in.

Written by a dad to an autistic son with ADHD. This is everyday parenting advice, not medical or therapy advice. If you’re worried about your child, talk to your GP, health visitor or school SENCo.